A feeding theme maybe? Example: burp cloths, bibs, boppy pillow, nipple cream, an "itzbeen" timer (these are amazing!!! it times feedings, sleepings, diaper changes, etc), breast pads, etc.

If she is formula feeding then a small variety of formula to sample and some bottles.

Another gift theme could be clothes. Some that you could wear with each other (like a bunch of pinks and browns). Shoes, hats, pants, onsies, pj’s, shirts.

And then of course theres the diaper bag theme: Diaper bag, pacifiers, burp cloths, changing pad, wipes container, hand sanitizer, bottle, couple outfits, bulb syringe, etc. And best of all you don’t have to wrap this gift cause everything should fit in the diaper bag itself! =]